Painbites Blog
From Stuck to Shift: What We Can Learn From Chris Sykes-Popham’s Recovery (and Why Freeme Matters)
After years of exhaustion and searching for answers, Chris Sykes-Popham discovered that recovery from ME/CFS wasn’t about fighting symptoms — it was about understanding them.
In this conversation, Chris shares how awareness, self-compassion, and nervous-system insight turned his journey around and inspired the creation of the FreeMe app, now helping others find the same freedom.
You Are Not the Role You Learned: How Childhood Scripts Shape the Adult Nervous System — and Your Pain
We often carry childhood roles into adulthood without realising it — the strong one, the fixer, the achiever, the peacekeeper. These unconscious scripts shape the nervous system and can drive persistent pain. You are not the role you learned to survive. And you’re not that child anymore.
🎄 Christmas, Pain, and the Quiet Gift of Taking Care of Yourself
The holidays can increase pain, stress, and emotional load. This gentle guide offers grounding practices, pacing strategies, and small ways to care for yourself before, during, and after Christmas.
It’s Not the Condition — It’s the Conditioned Response
Persistent pain doesn’t always mean something is wrong with the body. Often, the issue isn’t the condition itself but the conditioned response — a nervous system that has learned to react with protection even after tissues have healed.
Your pain is real, but it may be coming from a system stuck in high alert rather than ongoing damage. The hopeful part? What’s been learned can be unlearned, and safety can be restored.
Your Nervous System Isn’t Broken — It’s Protective
Persistent pain doesn’t always mean damage. Learn how a protective nervous system can keep pain alive — and how to teach it safety.
The Hidden Cost of Pushing Through Pain
Pushing through pain may feel strong, but it can keep your nervous system in protection mode. Learn why kindness, not pressure, is the real path to recovery.
When Pain’s Meaning Gets Misplaced
Persistent pain isn’t always about damage. Learn how misattributed pain meaning can keep symptoms alive, and how reframing can help recovery.
When Perfectionism Fuels The Pain
Perfectionism keeps the nervous system on high alert. Learn how softening these patterns with self-compassion can support recovery from persistent pain.